AM/HAVE I’ll tell you the truth: I’m bad at being disabled. I’ll tell you the truth: I’m bad at having a disability, too. I’ll tell you the truth: Some days I am there out loud out and proud disabled. Some days my heart thumps in my chest and my legs shake and … Continue reading Am/Have
Friday Faves: Steel Toed
With a nod to all to all the other style bloggers who curate similar lists, I present: Friday Faves, a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. This week: I'm restless, which means dark lipstick, steel toed boots, and Sleater-Kinney. Cami Dress with Lace Underlayer by … Continue reading Friday Faves: Steel Toed
Friday Faves: Spring is Here, Sort Of
With a nod to all to all the other style bloggers who curate similar lists, I present: Friday Faves, a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. This week: Springtime is here for Hitler, at least sporadically, but I'm gearing up anyways. The weather where I … Continue reading Friday Faves: Spring is Here, Sort Of
Friday Faves: Trans Day of Visibility
With a nod to all to all the other style bloggers who curate similar lists, I present: Friday Faves, a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. This week: it's the Trans Day of Visibility, get ready for pronouns, buttons, t-shirts, and binders. The International Trans Day of … Continue reading Friday Faves: Trans Day of Visibility
Friday Faves: All Black All the Time
With a nod to all to all the other style bloggers who curate similar lists, I present: Friday Faves, a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. This week: clothing and accessories as black as my sense of humor. Among other pursuits, I occasionally work gigs as … Continue reading Friday Faves: All Black All the Time
Friday Faves: Too Stressed to Be Blessed
With a nod to all to all the other style bloggers who curate similar lists, I present: Friday Faves, a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. Too Stressed to Be Blessed Iron-On Patch by Pretty Bad Co., $8.00 Since making the super not great decision … Continue reading Friday Faves: Too Stressed to Be Blessed
Friday Faves: Galaxyrise
Friday Faves is a weekly feature of some of the things on the internet that I'm currently lusting over. This week, I'm inspired by NASA's discovery of seven seemingly Earth-like planets outside our solar system and this eShakti dress. Constellation Print Georgette Halterneck Maxi Dress by eShakti, $59.95; XS-6X How gorgeous is this dress? Just … Continue reading Friday Faves: Galaxyrise
Podcasts and ch(ill): history, history, astrophysics, polar bears
Like a lot of chronically ill people, I spend a lot of my time in bed doing not much of anything. Fatigue is being exhausted and bored at the same time. I would like to be a robot, switching off my consciousness while I recharge, plugged in and blissfully unaware, but sleep is a tenuous … Continue reading Podcasts and ch(ill): history, history, astrophysics, polar bears
National Suicide Prevention Week: Music to keep living by
Hey, hey, hey, the end is near! On a good day, you can see the end from here. But I won't turn back, now, though the way is clear; I will stay for the remainder. - "On a Good Day", Joanna Newsom CW: mentions of suicide, suicidal ideation This week September 5-11 is … Continue reading National Suicide Prevention Week: Music to keep living by
Nonbinary flattering (the not as fun kind)
I don't think a lot of nonbinary people dress in a flattering way. Specifically, I don't think a lot of nonbinary people dress in a flattering way by the standards of our ciscentric, binarist society, because our genders don't match what would be considered most "flattering" for our bodies. Wherever we find ourselves in the … Continue reading Nonbinary flattering (the not as fun kind)